Just broke up a fight!!!

Travisthedog · August 2013

And it's only 1100hrs

Dorchester is a pretty sleepy town and we have a beautiful Victorian gardens in the centre of town where I take the kids a lot

So sat round the bandstand with coffee and ice cream for the boy, when this guy starts on at the guy who was sat on the bench next to me. The usual low level grumblings about "you were cracking on to my missis yesterday" stuff. Then the language got a bit naughty in front of kids so I asked if they could take it some place else and sort it out.

Next thing he's on the other giving him a solid drubbing. All like 5' away from my kids. Instead of walking away I grabbed the bloke off the top and yelled at him about being a prat and right in front of my kids. Just as I though he was gonna lamp me, he just shrugge his shoulders apologised profusely and walked of crying!!!!! The other guy thanked me for helping and legged it!!

Brilliant. My boy thinks I'm some sort of action hero now

Fretwired · August 2013

Cool .. were your underpants on the outside .... :-)

Travisthedog · August 2013

No - but they sure as hell are now.

Gonna go see if I can climb buildings or fly now

mike_l · August 2013

Getting mouthy in front of kids is bad enough..

Getting naughty in front of kids is out-of-order..

Props on being brave/stupid enough to break it up though fella. I know plenty of "hardmen" who'd have walked away......

Travisthedog · August 2013

If I'd not had the kids I'd have just walked off

Funny ain't it

[Deleted User] · August 2013

Yeah.

That worked out rather well.

Well done for showing your kids some proper behaviour.

Just make sure you tell them always to walk away and never get involved in other people's problems when thy grow up.

Things could've ended up rather worse than they did.

Travisthedog · August 2013

No I agree - could have got stabbed shot or anything, but I had the same red mist as when I caught 2 cnuts in my house walking out with my telly. I chased those fuckers for 1/2 a mile.

I think I just felt so angry these two twats had decided to have it out right next to my kids

monquixote · August 2013

Good on you.

I have the same slightly dangerous habit of getting involved. It hasn't got be stabbed so far, but I know it's not the most sensible thing to do.

chillidoggy · August 2013

Any chance you can come round next time I fancy a walk into town?

Grumpyrocker · August 2013

Another Dorchester forumite!
Never seen any trouble like that in Borough Gardens before. Though did once have to tell a bunch of young teenagers to get off the little kids playground equipment because my two year old (four now) wanted to use it. They were doing the typical teen thing of trying to put the swings over the top, going round the roundabout like a spin cycle.
Actually I'm a Manc. But lived in Charlton Down (just north of Dorchester) from early 2009 until last spring. We've moved further west now near Beaminster. We do still often pop over to Dorchester though.

bertie · August 2013

I used to sort out the computers at West Dorset DC, back in the 80s.............and the tax office

Bellycaster · August 2013

Blimey, you showed some Balls there, Travis.

How old were the Morons? It would be more shameful behaviour if they were fully grown men rather than late teens.

Regardless, anyone anywhere near adult age should have enough decency to keep it away from kids seeing it.

Well done.

Emp_Fab · August 2013

I stayed at the Kings Arms on High St once. Bloody noisy oiks giving the poor chap running the takeaway place opposite grief for being 'an immigrant'. I installed the new systems in the big health centre when it was first built.

Travisthedog · August 2013

Aw! Feeling the love for Dorchester then!

By the big health centre Emp, I assume you mean Dorset County Hospital!! And yeah Vampire Kebabs is still run by a lovely bunch of Turks.

@Grumpyrocker - thought I was the only Dorset forumite! Do you ever make it into town or do you hang out with the arty lot in Bridders?

Heartfeltdawn · August 2013

Audley Harrison wants to know if you're up for a fight in the near future.

Travisthedog · August 2013

Nah - well not unless he starts gobbing off near my kids.

Then ill kick his sorry ass :-j

Grumpyrocker · August 2013

Travisthedog said:

@Grumpyrocker - thought I was the only Dorset forumite! Do you ever make it into town or do you hang out with the arty lot in Bridders?

Ha. I've three small kids and a wife who is a full-time vicar - I can just about manage a walk to the pub in our village occasionally.

thumpingrug · August 2013

I'm in Poole if that counts.

bertie · August 2013

Travisthedog said:

apologised profusely and walked of crying!!!!!

you bully...........

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blueskunk · August 2013

Well done dude

digitalscream · August 2013

monquixote said:

Good on you.

I have the same slightly dangerous habit of getting involved. It hasn't got be stabbed so far, but I know it's not the most sensible thing to do.

Me too...the wife's always worried about it. We live next to a block of shops, one of which is a takeaway...there's trouble there at least one night a week. When there isn't trouble, there's usually a bunch of kids shouting and screaming at 11pm Thurs/Fri/Sat, so I usually go out there and have a quiet word.

It annoys me that so many people are so scared of strangers that they won't even go and politely ask people to tone it down a bit. Every time so far (we've been here about 9 years), I've just asked them nicely to lower their voices or move on, and they've just replied with an apology and a promise to be quiet. No trouble thus far.

Well, apart from when I saw a guy trying to put the hard sell on a bunch of schoolkids to buy drugs and threatening violence if they didn't. Called 999, they said, "Don't approach them, and we'll send someone to get a statement." I told them I was going to go and sort it out and it'd probably get violent, and three police cars turned up just as I was pulling said dealer off one of the kids.

I'll be honest, my wife wasn't especially happy at that particular incident.

Drew_TNBD · August 2013

I'm torn on this. I get why you did it, but when you say "the usual grumblings" it kind of sounds like you're not even cared about why it kicked off in the first place. Maybe the guy did actually fuck his girlfriend or something... if that were the case, I'd find it hard to deny the guy some sort of vengeance - if he walked off crying, it was obviously an emotional thing for him.

Typically I wouldn't get involved in something like that. Not because of fear, but because it's none of my business and I wouldn't have all the facts to hand. No, you can't always wait until you've got the facts, but this wasn't a mugging or a robbery you thwarted. It was a bit of a punch up in a park over a girl.

Cue the "they made it his business by doing it in front of his precious little kiddly-winks" crappy mobbish justifications....

digitalscream · August 2013

Drew_fx said:

I'm torn on this. I get why you did it, but when you say "the usual grumblings" it kind of sounds like you're not even cared about why it kicked off in the first place. Maybe the guy did actually fuck his girlfriend or something... if that were the case, I'd find it hard to deny the guy some sort of vengeance - if he walked off crying, it was obviously an emotional thing for him.

Typically I wouldn't get involved in something like that. Not because of fear, but because it's none of my business and I wouldn't have all the facts to hand. No, you can't always wait until you've got the facts, but this wasn't a mugging or a robbery you thwarted. It was a bit of a punch up in a park over a girl.

Cue the "they made it his business by doing it in front of his precious little kiddly-winks" crappy mobbish justifications....

It doesn't really matter why IMO - a fight like that could quite easily spill over and end up with some of the kids running round the place getting hurt by the two guys in question (I've seen this happen from afar myself).

The simple fact that the guy apologised profusely and walked off all emotional suggests that he'd just seen the other one, come over in a red mist and everything around him disappeared in the tunnel vision; instead of thinking of it as somebody else unfairly getting involved, it seems to me that it acted more as a reminder of where he was...one which clearly worked otherwise it's reasonably likely @Travisthedog would've been posting this from a hospital bed

I dare say there's still a pasting waiting for the other guy, but it'll probably happen in a more appropriate context...

holnrew · August 2013

I saw a massive brawl in the streets of Bridport once.

Drew_TNBD · August 2013

Aye, like the pub with lots of glass around!

To your point, I think a responsible parent should be walking away with their kids; thus preventing any sort of spill over our collateral damage. Getting involved was needless and risky, and in some contexts can result in your kids being even more fucked up when they have to go to their fathers funeral and then grow up with out him.

Travisthedog · August 2013

thumpingrug;8014" said:
I'm in Poole if that counts.

Ooo Dorset massive ahoy

Travisthedog · August 2013

bertie;8064" said:
Travisthedog said:

apologised profusely and walked of crying!!!!!

you bully...........

)

God yeah. When you look at it like that.

I'm no better than them

chillidoggy · August 2013

Give 'em hell, big Jon!

blueskunk · August 2013

Yeah thats me drew, local wanksters around where i live who act "hard" or over agressive around my nippers get told quick time to disapear.
Always iritates me when im in a park and got loutish kids swearing ad spitttig etc - again as soon as they get too yobish in front of me or the wee ones - they get told to move it along!!

Deadman · August 2013

Well done Travis. I never walk walk past people in need either, sadly too many do.

bertie · August 2013

holnrew said:

I saw a massive brawl in the streets of Bridport once.

brawn, that was BRAWN Russ, came from Hugh F-W's place

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